Guardianship for Minor Children in Raleigh, North Carolina

Make Sure the Right People Raise Your Children if Something Happens to You

If you have kids, this is the part of estate planning you can't skip. Without it, a court - not you - decides who raises them and who controls their money.

A young expecting couple in Apex, North Carolina

Naming the Guardian Who Raises Them

In your will you name the guardian or guardians who will raise your children if you can't. Without that nomination, a North Carolina court picks from whoever steps forward - which may not be who you would have chosen, and can turn into a painful family dispute at the worst possible moment.

You can also name standby and emergency guardians so a trusted person can step in immediately, with no gap in your children's care.

Protecting the Money They'll Inherit

A child can't manage an inheritance. Leave it to them outright and the court controls it until they turn 18 - then hands over the entire amount at once, at an age when few people are ready for it.

A trust for your children lets you choose who manages the money, what it's for (a home, education, health), and the ages at which they actually receive it.

Is This Right for Your Family?

This is for you if you're:

  • Any parent of a minor child.

  • Expecting parents.

  • Parents who named a guardian years ago and need to revisit it.

  • Single parents, for whom this is especially urgent.

  • Grandparents raising grandchildren.

Common Questions

What happens if I don't name a guardian in North Carolina?

A court decides among whoever petitions to be guardian. That may not be the person you'd choose, and it can spark a family conflict.

Can't I just leave money straight to my kids?

Not practically. The court controls it until they're 18, then releases it all at once. A children's trust is the better way.

What is standby or emergency guardianship?

It lets someone you trust take care of your children right away, without waiting on a court process.

When should we set this up?

Now. It's the single document new parents most need and most often put off.

Robert Bartilucci, estate planning attorney

Protect Your Children's Future

You'll work with me directly, from our first conversation to the day you sign. That first conversation is free and there's no pressure - tell me about your family, and I'll tell you what actually makes sense for you.